Before filling up your wealth bucket.
We need to know why we want money and that it is a good thing to have an abundance.
Everything you want you can get. We can get food, shelter, water, cars, planes. Pretty much what ever you want. Below is a chart that shows you a hierarchy of needs. When you don't have one, all your energy is focused on that one thing. And will consume all your time.
First is oxygen.
Will you worry about cars and even what you are going to eat at dinner. If you don't have oxygen? No, your body will fight tooth and nail until that need is filled to survive.
Then shelter.
If you live in extreme conditions. You could freeze or die from heat.
Then water.
We need water or toxins will build up and cause permanent damage or death.
Then sleep.
We all know how hard it is to focus or do anything when we are tired.
Then Food.
You can survive weeks without food, but some people cant do anything if they miss lunch.
All these, a basic necessities of life and you must get all these before you can think about doing anything else. Most people are so busy "surviving" they cant even focus on or aim higher. So first plan is to Fill your Physiological needs.
Next step
Need for safety and security.
Now the only way we can do all these things is through money. Or finding someone who has them.
Yes, we need money for Food, water, shelter, sleep. And to feel safe and secure.

Living in a cardboard box or in a bad neighbourhood does give you shelter.
But now we are in need of peace of mind. You want to live in a safe place. Where you have access and all your basic needs are met. You want a place and money coming in where for the rest of your life you will not have to worry about the basic necessitates again. Now this means if you have a job you need to know the job is secure and will keep the needs filled. Or a spouse or partner you feel safe with.
Now for the good news. After we make money and have that covered the rest is just icing on the cake. The rest of our needs can be free. Best things in life a free once you feel safe and have your needs met.
We need love. I hate to say money will buy you love but no money will not.
You don't need a lot of money. But if a partner sees you can provide all the basic needs . You can move forward. And do other things. Like build connections friend ships join clubs and make and spend time with family.
Next step
After you have
Nice family, friends loved ones,
Live in a nice secure, house and feel safe neighbourhood, country.
You have access to oxygen water food shelter sleep.
This is where you can now aim to do something with your life.
Become a better person. By studying or creating things you enjoy.
And then can for fill you wildest dreams and live and become the person you were meant to be.
Once your free from worrying and have time all those dreams you pushed down and ideas you have left can now blossom.
Why else do we need this thing called money? And how do live life and get these things.
Through exchanging and bartering. Now we used to barter all the time.
You may want a coconut, and in turn, you will have to exchange something he would want in equal value. The problems with this was,
1. Things are not equal.
For example. You want to get a coconut. But you are a sheep herder. And all you can trade is sheep. But you just want 1 coconut. But the going rate is 12 coconuts per sheep.
You don't trade in parts of sheep. So you either have to buy the 12 coconuts or pass. This is the same as today. Perhaps you are a car dealer and you want some groceries. You cant go in a shop and trade your car for some meat and veges.
2. You need something of value or need to the person you are bartering with.
You want to buy a computer. and you sell toys.
He may not want toys, So you will have see what he wants, and will have to aquire it to get your computer.
Perhaps what he needs is legal advice. So you have to find a lawyer that wants toys. You say to the Lawyer If I give you this much in toys will you give this man legal advice. And when he agrees.
The lawyer gets the toys, the man gets legal advice, and you get your computer.
It was a complicated system. And barely worked if you had nothing anyone wanted.
So we decided compare and value all products and services under one system.
And come up with an ingenious way to barter. We call money.
Everything is now valued in a currency in 1 cent increments (depending what country.) to unlimited. And how we value this is on supply and demand and rarity.
Everything will measured in this way. So coconuts are for example 100 cents. legal help may be 1000 c, toys might range from 10 c to 1500 c. You can now put a price on your product. And people will pay you this "money" for your products. And everyone will accept and use this money system.
You can now just give him 100c for a coconut in turn he can buy what he needs.
With that 100 cents. He can buy what ever he wants. And will not be worrying what he has to trade is what the person wants. Instead of only being able to offer your sheep at 1200 cents and just get 12 coconuts . You can sell your sheep to others at 1200 c and you can use 100 c to buy a coconut. 100c for a beer, etc.
Money is what everyone needs, wants and uses.
So moral of the story. You need money and lots of it. Because like it or not everything you want will cost you. Either time or money.
Lets talk about time.

Just like bartering for products you barter and trade you time.
You offer 8 hours a day at your work and in exchange, they will give you say $100. So you have valued your time at $12.50 an hour... Is "literally" once in a lifetime hours worth that for doing something you hate?
Lets work something out
Average life expectancy 75 years X 365 days X 24 hours a day =
657450 hours
1/3 is sleeping
219150 hours
That leaves you
438300 hours
If you work for 8 hours for your life (includes school while your young)
that leaves you only
219150 hours left. (this is calculated at 7 days because the chores and jobs you have to do at home).
Now lets see what are we going to do with this 8 hours.
Well well first of all what hours will these be. lets say you work 9-5
You get up at 6. So you have 3 hours before work and you go to bed 10pm so you have 5 hours in the evening. 8 hours in the dark or early morning with most shops shut and to dark to do anything.
Lets take off 1 hour for commute to work. 2 x 30 mins
Lets take off 1 hour for showers and getting dressed 2x 30 mins
1 hour for preparing and eating meals'
1 hour for exercise
.
leaves you 4 hours.
That is not 4 hours straight.It is 1 or 2 hours in the morning and 1 or 2 in the evening. So most people will just watch a tv show or relax or spend time with family.
And this does not include school pickups, helping with homework, and the millions of other things we have to do.
So to conclude you need money and you need time to enjoy life. Excesses wont necessarily make you happy. But enough of both will.
The reason I say this is to remind people they are not bad people to want to enjoy their life.
And people are not bad when they have lots of money.

Money
DOES buy happiness. Because it buys you time, and it buys your dreams and things you want and need.
You need money to buy shelter water and food heat or cooling. After that everything is basically a want instead of a need.
You want a car so you don't have to walk 10 miles a day.
You are buying time. It may take you 3 hours each way to walk to work but in car it takes you half an hour. You are paying for a car to be free. You can go places, and experience and discover and try new things that are not in walking distance.
You don't need the Internet but you can talk and see people on the other side of the world for free. Have an access to unlimited information and people.
Phones..... .Oh i don't think mobile phones are valued enough. It makes my life so much easier.
It is a note pad, calculator, phone, gps, directory, a game console, diary, book shelf, music player a tv,a business one stop shop. It is endless at what it can do. I can turn on my air con on the way home. I can order food to my door for when I get home. Stay in contact with friends. Can run my business and home life on my phone. And can take my business anywhere in the world. So buying a phone buys me freedom to travel, connecting with people and best of all. It has quickly turned into one of the biggest money making industries in the history of the world. But the best thing about my smartphone,it has satellite navigation. I no longer fight with my Wife about directions.
I look at everything in its value to me.
Ferrari is not a value to me. The price does not offer a great value. It offers me nothing for the price. Speed cameras everywhere, means I cant drive fast anyway. It does not carry any thing I buy. , it does not carry my family. I don't care if people go whoaaaaa a Ferrari. I know just as many people will be going "rich prick". Peoples admiration or jealously of my possessions does not make me happy. I would buy a Ferrari for investment, or if it was cheaper. but the value of what it offers me is not right.
Strip clubs.
Men go to strip clubs and if you watch them they pay not for sex but for companionship. A beautiful lady spends time with them. To you paying ladies to like them may seem sad. But it makes them happy. I don't need strips clubs because I don't need a divorce lol. But you should not judge on what makes people happy. look at the heirachy of needs. That sense of love companionship. Is highly needed. So a am who has lots of money but not many friends and no partner. To him this is money well spent. he has everything else he needs.
One good thing to you may be disgusting to another person.
I love a juicy steak . Yet someone might be a vegan.
You might enjoy running 5 miles a day. While i would rather eat rocks.
And some ladies like sitting their relaxing getting hair done for hours. But for me i get the shaver out and run it over my head. I could not spend 3 hours and hundreds of dollars on a hair cut. But my wife comes back feeling good and looking good. And it makes both us happy. So it is well worth it.
What makes you happy is up to you. Not anyone else. If you want to travel around the world, if you want to dedicate your life to charity, perhaps you want to gamble, you love to collect classic cars, you love to drink and have sex with prostitutes. It's your money its your time. Do what you want to do.
YOU HAVE ONE LIFE TO LIVE.
So you need money. And remember you are not a bad person. if you need or want a little bit more to make you happy.
Now its time to make money money money money flow into you bank and keep flowing for ever.
We have got our expenses bucket
We have our investment bucket. Like a dam. Holds and builds up money and flows out the excess each month into your expenses bucket.
Now we build a tap to pour money into our wealth bucket and we need to do some plumbing and build a pipeline. We need to add some pipes from different sources to our main line. The more we have the more it will flow.